Its been a month since i started travelling by the ladies first class local from vashi to andheri.I get to see a lot of difference in the class of the women in terms of clothes ,behaviour and accesories.The mindset of the women inside this less than 100 x 100 is way different than the other bogies.No shouting ,and just silently entering the compartment, which indicates the empathy the women climbing have with the women hanging at the door.But what really amazes me the most, is why isnt this space of advertising been used before?its the brilliant space to capture these elite women and sell them pretty highly paid stuff.
Getting back to understanding the behavior of these women I have not seen a single fight (which is pretty common) in this bogie for space or for entering the door, mind you even if the bogie is full.
While I enjoy the ride with comfort in the first class I will keep you updated about the happenings and observations of this elite class of classic women travelling via local.
In this post I want to put my heart out to you of the travel that we did across the nation. My country is different across different parts. This post is not a travel diary. Its the account of the state of mind. The five senses that saw, heard, tasted and smelled. The mind asked so many questions that had no answers. Travel makes you understand and love life even more.Why People follow somethings without questioning them?. Why Women are perceived by the looks that they carry, the clothes that they wear ?. Behind every such women is the person who could have achieved and nurtured the uniqueness within. Why was the golden temple made? Does the Sikh religion really the way to GOD? What makes so many people serve? Why and what goes in Wagah border the way it is? What is its significance? Why we take a dip in the holy Ganges water? Are we called to be there? What is Karma ? Why one religion says the other is not good? Do we really need to follow the religions or just work towards the fulfillment of each other? Why is one person different than the other? Why cant we all understand the value of ourselves? Why?
My colleagues said, “You should have passion in what you do? Unless you have passion you cannot perform well.” My friend said gazing at a women playing a guitar in a rock show,”Good to see people who are passionate about their work.” My boss said,” Why are you not performing , are you not passionate with what you do? Do you want a change of role?”
So many questions, all revolve around our “passion”. Our job performance depends on the passion we put in it. Our housekeeping skills depend on the “passion” we put in it. Tell me one place where they don’t see the p word that you put in? Everyone sees. Everyone.
What is passion?Passion to me is that extra mile you go when you are dead tired and can’t move. How passionate should we be to perform? Wikipedia says that – It is a very strong feeling for a person or a thing. Science suggests that its a chemical that we produce. Is it really that simple?No.
But how long should you wait for it, ages? Do you really have that much time? What about those people who still have not found it. Passion is the second name for hard work or mastery. You have to work to zero in on that one thing you really really want to die doing. It is that one way you achieve happiness. Its that one way you can perform and excel in what you do. Its in a small area of your heart which you can find only if you pump it up with sweat and hard work. You cannot go to these remote areas of your heart unless you pump it up with blood. The highest level of excellence doesn’t come by money but it comes by sweat. Your sweat is your key to success. Your key to find that one area of your brain that works at maximum for a task. Thats passion and you gotta work for it!
Life changes when you realize you were wrong. You apologise yet you cannot make up for the loss. Mistakes that we all make in life are truly our pits we wish to fall into. Society does not like the road less travelled. They know the pits we will fall in. I want to tell them what they don’t know is how we will come up from it. How will our life be affected by it. How and what way do we design for ourselves the way to come out from this pit. They don’t realize that today the world wants to live on the edge. They dont fear dying, they fear not living. Life is so boring when its perfect! You need a reason to live, a reason to sweat, a reason to create that thing you wish to achieve. You need change. Once you realize what you are here for, why are you being given this day to live amongst such not so amazing people, you realize that you have a choice to stay or to change with time. You realize that you lack the effort and hard work to be with amazing people. You need to change for good and raise your level of understanding to the level that goes beyond your best. You are feeling this friction because your wave lengths differ from the ones you are talking to. You have a choice either to tolerate or raise your level of understanding. Society regards those Men who are extraordinary as stars and those that are less ordinary as friends. The winner stands alone. As there is only one of his kind in this world. He cannot make another him. He has to live with the ordinary and tolerate. Realization of every phase of your life will make you feel good and happy.